My husband

As an author, there are times I make my husband sit with me in certain positions, then move to others, so I can see how awkward, or how to describe it. We usually snicker like 12 year olds the entire time. As a wife, I can say there is nothing that turns my husband off more than trying to live up to a mental fantasy I’ve got for/from one of my books. He prefers to be in the drivers seat, and for sex to be in the moment. That said, he doesn’t always *know* that some trick with my mouth may have come from my expanded horizons via reading…

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